if been visible on an incoming accessible default port for nearly 3 years 24/7. and yes i've restarted the linux daemon. and no i dont expect/demand people to do the addnode, i was merely suggesting if the network was getting frail in any way they are welcome to do so. i still have a couple connections so its not like the daemon has failed in some odd way.
and of course why dont i have more outgoing connections too? why dont other people open up their ports for a change?
eeesh, such agresive response to a simple observation/request. perhaps i'll dump my trivial holdings and move on. the wallet demands too much cpu anyway. hopefully i can get $10 for 360k coins.
sorry, i didn't mean to hurt anybody's feelings, just people are so imprecise most of the time.
if you restarted on default port - simply wait until you have more peers, it takes long enough,
crypto is complex techy stuff, crypto people are mostly paranoid bastards including me, so it's never easy lol